搂着你数星星
2025-01-11 12:14:59
the amount of people doesnt mean the amount of power. like some groups, long and short terms that i participated in, there were people eat more by letting others eat less, you know what i mean? Dracula. and there are people of less power to give too. they may have the will to do something for all, but the result is the more or less as the first ones. so picking teammates is really more important than picking enemy. as a leader, you have to constantly look inside the group, there may be threat behind your men.
人多并不代表力量大。就像我在那些时间或长或短的团队里,有些人就会让别人饿肚子而自己却吃到撑,知道我是什么意思了吗?也就是说,很多人会拉队伍的后腿。他们可能很想为团队做些什么,但结果却很可能像我上面举的例子似的。所以,挑选队友比挑选敌人还重要。作为领导,你必须对团队的动态保持警惕,因为这里很有可能会有人背后“捅你一刀”。
2, do not judge too fast. some scold you, some smile at you, some look so kind that you want to tell all your funny stories to them and take them as your friend, then you are wrong. there needs a panetration through their masks. patience is a good friend and a good teacher who has the truth to say only after you wait enough time.
不要太快做判定。有些人会责骂你,有些人会微笑对你,有些人则看起来特别友善以至于你想把你所有的事情都告诉他,让他做你的朋友,那你就错了。你要透过他们的伪装面具来看到他们的本质。耐心亦师亦友。只有时间能证实人的本质。
3,pressure is not a 100 percent bad thing under which you can grow.
在你成长过程中,压力不是绝对的坏事
4, agreement with others whether you like them or not always means an "agreeble moment". people loves respect even they have known that is a fake one. and they love people who have same interest with them, as above, even fake ones. putting on a mask before you always means a protection and alliance.
赞同别人的意见意味着愉快的时刻,不论这些认识你喜欢的或是你讨厌的。人们常常会明知故犯,也很愿意与别人臭味相同,就如同我上面所说的,明知是错误的事情却还是去做。给自己呆上一张面具意味着保护自己,也意味着与别人同盟。
5, there are two ways to good life therefore we have two kinds of men. the one work for it, and the one buy. i am definitely a worker.
通向美好生活的道路有两条可供选择,一个是努力争取,一个是利用金钱。我是个纯粹的奋斗主义者。
6,if there is no trust, there is no betral. blame yourself没有信任就没有背叛。责任在于你自己。